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Porn Proofing Your iPhone

It’d be hard to come up with a product that made more of an impact in as many people’s lives as the iPhone did when it went on sale in 2007. It literally changed the way people used cell phones and we finally had a true portable computer which even had internet access. The iPhone 4 took it to a whole new level with it’s incredible screen and HD cameras. But like a lot of great products, the iPhone has a dark side.

Apple CEO Steve Jobs has repeatedly said he wanted to keep the iPhone porn free and for the most part Apple has backed this up by not approving “adult” (btw, I hate that term as much as I do calling a strip club a ‘gentleman’s’ club. Trust me, you won’t find a real gentleman within five miles of the joint) apps. But Jobs fails to acknowledge the easiest way for porn to get on an iPhone is through the Safari web browser.

Unfortunately, Apple does not provide any way to filter content on Safari. That means any guy can surf to content, huddled over his iPhone on 3G so there’s fewer ways for it to be traced, that he never would on his home or work computer. That’s why I came up with a few easy steps you can take to protect yourself or your teenager who has an iPhone.

These steps are not 100% foolproof, you can get around them if you try hard enough. My goal is to make it difficult enough and time consuming enough to get to porn that you’ll lose interest and the temptation will pass before you can actually see anything.

The first step is to use a little known option of iOS, Restrictions. Go to utilities-settings-general-restrictions. The first thing you do is have a friend or spouse set the passcode for you.

Next go in and turn off the following:
Safari
Installing Apps
In-app purchases

Now you won’t be able to do any of these actions without the passcode.

While you’re in this screen, set the ratings level for all of your content.

The next step is to install a replacement web browser. I’ve tested several and I really like Mobicip. It looks and functions just like Safari. You can find it in the app store and it will be the best five bucks you’ll spend this year. You use their website to set the filtering level and this something you should let the same person who set your passcode handle for you.

One drawback to using a third party browser is you won’t be able to just click on links in Twitter, Facebook, and emails. You’ll have to copy and paste them directly into the browser. Pain in the butt? Yep, but worth it.

Those are the big steps but here’s a few more that will restrict your access to porn no matter what computer you’re on.

Set Google’s SafeSearch settings in Preferences.

Set YouTube filter settings. To disable the viewing of porn videos on YouTube, simply sign into your YouTube account, and scroll down to the bottom of the page. Select SAFETY MODE, click on the ‘off’ link and you will bevshown the options to enable the filtering of unsafe videos.

Also, set the filter levels for media services like Flickr and Netflix.

BTW, all of this works on the iPad as well.

Again there are ways around any of these steps so the best line of defense is your own behavior.

I love my iPhone but I also know it can be a little like walking around with this

That’s why you and I have to be careful! Trust me, you won’t regret the money you’ll spend doing this or the inconvience.

What Would You Do With an Extra 199 Hours Per Year?

 
The average daily commute is 23 minutes one way. That doesn’t sound too bad until you start to run the numbers. 23 minutes is:

46 minutes per day which is 230 minutes per week which is 11,960 minutes per year.

Here’s the big one, 11,960 minutes is 199 hours!

199 hours sitting in your car doing nothing. Maybe you do something like listening to crappy morning radio or insane sports talk call-in shows (Jim Rome is NOT in this category). 199 hours that you could be doing something productive and no I don’t mean texting, Facebook or Twitter, but actually doing something that will make a positive impact on your life.

I use my iPhone but a Droid phone works or just a basic ipod or any other mp3 player. You can pickup the low end iPod for $50, which will hold enough stuff for you to listen to for weeks. Then all you have to do is head on over to iTunes and download hours of FREE content.

Because I’m a former pastor, I really enjoy listening to sermons and bible teachers. Here’s a list of guys I listen to.

Jerry Gillis is the pastor of The Chapel in Buffalo, NY and a guy I’d be happy listening to every Sunday

http://www.thechapel.com/podcast/crosspoint/feed.xmlBrett Burleson used to work with me and is now the lead pastor of Dayspring Baptist Church in Mobile. He’s a great bible teacher and super smart.
http://www.dayspringbc.org/?page_id=8&podcastMark Driscoll is not for the faint of heart. He pastors in Seattle at a church called Mars Hill. If you’re a sensitive type don’t listen to Mark but if you like hard core bible teaching, give him a listen.
http://rss.marshillchurch.org/mhcsermonaudio

Bruxy Cavey. In my mind Bruxy is the best kept secret around. He pastors a church in Canada called The Meeting House. His sermon notes are seminary level stuff. Plus it’s fun to hear him mispronounce words.
http://www.themeetinghouse.ca/podcast/TMH.rss

Bill Hybels has been around for while. He pastors the first modern mega church, Willocreek in suburban Chicago
http://feeds.feedburner.com/WillowCreekWeekendMessages

Andy Stanley is probably the most practical bible teacher I’ve ever heard. He has a unique way of turning a difficult teaching into a phrase that’s easy to remember.
http://feeds.feedburner.com/WeeklyPodcastNorthPoint

But preaching is not the only thing I listen to. Because I’m a geek I enjoy listening to a guy named Leo Laporte. He’s been around the tech world for a lot of years and is one of the best podcasters you’ll hear. Here’s three of his broadcasts that I listen to.

One of the least publicised features of iTunes is iTunes U. This is where hundreds of hours of teaching is available for free. Want to learn how to write a iPhone app? You can listen or watch all the lectures done by Apple employees in a class at Stanford.

If you’re the average guy, you hate to read a book. When someobody asks you why, your answer is always “I don’t have the time” or “I’m too busy”. I’ve got a solution for you, audio books., There are several great websites where you can download books, but this best is www.Audible.com. For just a few bucks a month you can download everything from a current best sellers to a classic.

No matter what you choose, just do something. Don’t waste 199 hours of your life!

How to Make Good Decisions

One of the toughest things to do as a man is make good decisions, especially big decisions. Those decisions that are going to affect the next year, five years, and beyond of your life. Decisions that will affect not only your life but also the lives of people who mean a lot to you.

The problem is sometimes there are decisions where there is not a clear cut right or wrong option. Both options are good and both would probably work out just fine but you don’t know which option is THE one.  When this happen it can cause even the most self-confident man to have butterflies in your stomach and one the average man responds in one of a few ways:

    • You’re so afraid of making a bad decision you freeze up and make no decision or
    • Because you’re so freaked out, you make a quick, rash decision just to get it off your mind, or
    • Your brain short circuits because of all of the options and you end up flipping a coin or
    • You slow down and make an informed, well thought out decision.

Every guy wants to do #4 but they don’t know how. I’m going to give you the best advice for making good decisions that I’ve come across. It was written by a guy named Andy Stanley and he said the question to ask when you’re faced with a big decision is what is the wise thing do in light of:

    • My Past-what in my past will affect this decision?
    • My Current Situation-What’s happening right now that should be factored into this decision?
    • My Future Hopes and Dreams- How will the decision where I want to be next year, 5 years or 10 years?

So, what decision to do you to make?